You need help with your divorce. You want help with your divorce…

Is It Possible…

To Survive A Dirty Divorce With Your Sanity, Parenting, And Your Integrity Intact?

Dear friend,

The general view is a resounding NO! The entirety of family law and the way it is administered by the courts is to dis-empower men. It is to literally take from him everything he values and everything he loves (everything that makes him who he is) and then tell him to beg like a dog for the possibility of a treat.

But then the odd occasional surprising thing happens…

In order to do battle in the Family Court successfully:

  • You need to understand the system.
  • You need to understand the law, procedures, general outcomes, and the process.
  • You need to understand the players: the courts, the lawyers, the psychologists and psychiatrists, and the bureaucrats.
  • You need the best possible information and knowledge about your adversary.

Judge takes girl away from selfish mum and gives her to dad in custody battle

Kay Dibben The Courier-Mail November 29, 2014 12:00AM

Okay. So, it is possible to get a fair-ish outcome in the Family Court. But. It will be the fight of your life.

As one member put it,
“Expect her to lie. Expect them to believe her. Expect no fairness. Expect to need mountains of evidence to prove your case. Their goal is to ‘bleed you dry’ and beat you into submission. You’ll never see the last of their dirty tricks. It behoves you therefore to be very prepared very early.”

Sun Tzu is quoted as saying: ‘Know thyself, know thy enemy.’ Going into your fights knowing what you’re up against should serve to prepare you not deter you. And your enemy is not just your ex. We now have a massive problem in all of western society in regards to men and the value we place on fatherhood. It is painfully clear to those fighting the courts and those of us helping, that fatherhood is entirely disposable. The courts are not fair to fathers. The courts are not reasonable to fathers. And as much as they pay lip service to it, the courts do not have “children’s best interests” in mind.

So you keep fighting and… we will help.

Real answers and real help with your divorce.

We here at Family Court Secrets have been very busy for the last 12 months creating a community that gives you real help with your case in the Family Court. We’ve called this community McKenzie Friends Club. It’s a private, exclusive community for divorced and divorcing men, with or without children, sharing, guiding and helping each other to get a great outcome for ourselves and our kids.

So, What is a McKenzie Friend?

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A McKenzie friend assists a litigant in person in a common law court. This person does not need to be legally qualified. The litigants in person are entitled to have assistance, lay or professional, unless there are exceptional circumstances.

– Wikipedia 2014


Your family court case will be under your control. You will be more certain and confident in dealing with the family courts with the help, advice and support from your exclusive McKenzie Friends Club Community.

We’re proud to count among our valued Members people just like you...

A Dad who wants the best outcomes possible for his children and is willing to “go the extra mile” to achieve them.

Someone who’s willing to learn and apply, share his experience and, pay it forward, helping others doing the same.

You’ll get to meet many of these good people personally, because a key feature of McKenzie Friends Club is the regular member meet-ups and club workshops.

This is YOUR club – so you call the shots.

McKenzie Friends Club is a vibrant community and so we always value your feedback and act swiftly to accommodate your valued suggestions to improve the club.

That’s what makes our private club different from any other newsletter or website. You get more than just actionable knowledge… you get things done.

What You Can Expect From The Mckenzie Friends Club Community

Certainty, Clarity, Understanding & Courage

From real help and support.

  • Understanding – Clarity – on Family Law and domestic violence matters
  • Practical help and advice
  • Contacts
  • McKenzie Friend Club support between and amongst the members
  • Basic trial consulting.
  • Emotional support through:
    • Education – removing the confusion and replacing with certainty, both online and through workshops
    • Friend to friend mentoring and help, not psychiatry or psychology
    • Local Meet-ups organised by members

McKenzie Friends Club as a paid membership community provides:

  • Real practical help for men to get a great outcome for themselves and their kids
  • A private community sharing, guiding and helping each other on the journey
  • MyCase a complete legal case management system, used by solicitors, legal aid and community legal centres.
  • Online secure journal — MyCase — specifically designed for Family Court rules of evidence
  • Private secure online forums
  • Wiki — legal definitions and how-to’s in plain english. Members have full editing rights with the Wiki, so you can add your own entries and edit others.
  • Family Court Master Class — A complete online course that teaches you every aspect in dealing with your divorce. We’re constantly adding new important information and training to the Family Court Master Class. Our goal is to have the most comprehensive, practical, plain english training available for you.
  • Private secure online chat
  • Bank Grade Security from login to leaving.

Here's just some of what you get as a Member:

Family Court Master Class

Knowledge is power and with the knowledge you will gain, you will have the power to more effectively advocate for yourself and for the children whom you love. We will help you to see the pitfalls and traps. Traps that you may never be able to get out of and will require you to live with for the rest of yours’ and your children’s lives, unless you handle the situations correctly from the very beginning.

Our online course “Family Court Master Class” teaches you how to play the family court game with some of the rules and where to find all of them, plus how-to’s, tips, traps and tricks, to get you up to speed as soon as possible. “Family Court Master Class” will show you what to say and what to do to protect yourself and your children in the family courts especially if you are representing yourself.

Here are some of the strategies you will discover inside the McKenzie Friends Club Family Court Master Class:

  • An immediate check-list of steps to take to safeguard your own and your children’s interests.
  • Strategies for your financial issues
  • Strategies for Residence, Care and Access for your children in their best interests.
  • How to document your case and why using MyCase – your own 100% secure online journal.
  • Gathering evidence
  • How to write Affidavits
  • Dress for Success in Court and Why
  • Hiring a Lawyer – How to Find an Effective One
    • Evaluating Your Lawyer
    • Negotiating Fees
    • Working With Your Lawyer
    • Instructing Your Lawyer
  • Representing Yourself in Court
  • The Family Court Process and What To Do In Each Phase
  • Family Court Orders for Residence, Contact, Specific Issues
  • Directions Hearings and What to Do
  • What Happens at Trial
  • How to deal with Psychiatric or Psychological “Experts” and their reports.

McKenzie Friends Club provides real world “How NOT to get screwed” help, support and connection for divorcing / divorced dads / men and their children.


Imagine having all of your case information neatly organised, in one central location, available for viewing from anywhere at any time. Your MyCase dashboards reveal all of your critical information at a glance in concise, simple and easy-to-use formats.

Get to the heart of your case!

MyCase is the most comprehensive, yet easy-to-use, cloud-based legal case management software. Designed by a clinician, for clinicians, MyCase has been developed specifically for the legal profession.

Stay completely organised with your total case management system, MyCase.

MyCase organises all of your information by case. See all the crucial information for each case organised for easy access. Each case collects the contacts, meetings, tasks, notes, and documents specific to that case. Never hunt for information related to your cases again; one click will show you all the important details.

Stay on top of your deadlines and priorities: Ensure all key tasks and deadlines are captured and managed using work-flow calendaring. Tasks and appointments can be securely shared with Microsoft Outlook, Google Calendar or any iCal system.

It is intuitive and enjoyable to use, which maximises your experience and productivity.

Maintain total control of your cases with our powerful tasks:

  • Create a complete secure electronic file of your entire case.
  • View comprehensive case information on one screen
  • Case Notes
  • Document Management – Easy uploading of documents, images, videos.
  • Events/Calendar
  • Contacts and Roles Management

Our primary objective in creating the McKenzie Friends Club Community is to give you the information and help you need to get the best outcome for you and your children.

It's our goal here at McKenzie Friends Club to become the number one men's self help / support community. We are becoming an effective movement with a large and committed community.

Security and Privacy

Security and privacy of our members is and always will be paramount at McKenzie Friends Club. We’ve gone to great lengths to protect your data and your privacy so you can be free to communicate, learn and teach.

Cutting-edge international multi-jurisdiction privacy protection for you.

The reason for this is to dissuade any litigants from trying to bypass the party who is a member of our community and attempt to subpoena the site or company directly for information, records or documents.

We want to make this as difficult and expensive as possible to these litigants and courts.

McKenzie Friends Club is hosted overseas in Hong Kong. Why?

Hosting there makes it almost impossible for the courts and governments of Australia, New Zealand, the UK and the USA to demand that it be taken down or that they be given access to the site or its contents. Court orders, especially Family Court orders against third parties are not enforceable there. is of course registered in the USA, with a private registration so again it’s almost impossible for Australian, New Zealand or the UK courts and authorities to get the site taken down or get access to it or the contents.

McKenzie Friends Club uses Dalpay to process credit card member payments as another part of our cutting-edge international multi-jurisdiction privacy protection for you. Dalpay is based in Iceland a country now renowned for its stance on freedom of speech and human rights.

The company that owns the domain, server and site is domiciled in a country renowned for privacy which again makes it very very difficult for Family Court orders to be enforced there.

In all cases above, they or your ex’s lawyers would have to start all over again in that country’s court system, using local lawyers etc. to get it done.

So in effect McKenzie Friends Club is untouchable. It’s almost impossible to get your data without your knowledge and consent.

If in the unlikely event that anyone can get that far in those court systems, we have a Plan B that will ensure your privacy and the security of your information.

Bank Grade Security

We rigorously ensure that your information and privacy is secure. You connections to McKenzie Friends Club are of course encrypted just like your connection to your online bank account.

So in the end, just like Vegas, anything said or done in McKenzie Friends Club stays in McKenzie Friends Club.

So how do I join this private exclusive club?

Here is YOUR invitation to join us and other dads who have ‘figured out’ as one member put it, “I really can do something about my divorce to get the best outcome possible for my kids and me.”

The membership fee is $37 AUD per month. There is no lock-in contract. You can quit at any time.

This ensures that only serious people who are just like you, will join. We only want serious people to become members because they are regular users of and contributors to the community: show up in the forums and chat, learn, apply and get a positive outcome, and then help others to do the same.

When you acknowledge everything that you get as a Member, I’m sure you’ll agree it’s a bargain compared to what it would cost you to amass the same treasure trove of insider knowledge and help that you have instant access to here.

Solicitors charge an average of $220.00 per hour to give legal advice but that advice is tempered by the fact that their first duty is to the Court, not you.

Just one pitfall avoided… or one actionable idea… or just one contact with one of our mentors or members can repay your Membership many times over.

Joining the community is an easy and straightforward process.

When you click on the button below, you’ll be taken to a secure order page for your credit card information. We use a third party secure processing company (Dalpay) so your order information is kept completely confidential — only Dalpay and your credit card company access the information.

Your order is processed immediately, and you’ll get an email receipt for your membership with a transaction number and a link to where you can login to McKenzie Friends Club right away and another email receipt from Dalpay with important information in it.

The whole process takes just a few minutes and you’ll be accessing all of the benefits of the community in less than 10-minutes from right now.

30 Day Guarantee

If you show up, learn, and apply the Family Court Master Class, use MyCase to manage your matter, ask for help when you need it and put in a good-faith effort, we will not keep your money if it doesn’t work for you.

You have to let us know if this happens. Simply cancel your membership in your dashboard, submit a support ticket or e-mail [email protected] and we will refund your money promptly. You have 30 days to succeed before we return your money.

“Get Started Now…”

Take positive action right now, or the very thing you fear most can come true, and your situation can become hopeless.

An online legal case management system as used by solicitors and barristers, like MyCase,  alone, costs on average $100 per month per person.

Protection for you and your kids for less than $1.22 a day!

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I understand that I'll receive instant access to:

  • The complete MyCase case management system, a secure online legal case management system as used by solicitors and barristers. This alone costs on average $100 per month per lawyer.
  • Family Court Master Class,
  • legal resources,
  • a secure private forum and chat,
  • and the help I’ll need from McKenzie Friends mentors and other members!

And No Lock-in Contracts.

I understand that if my circumstances change or I’ve changed my mind, I can quit at any time. With your guarantee as well, I have a no-risk opportunity to be part of a community helping Dads just like me to win fairer and better outcomes in the Family Court. I’m ready!

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